Thank you for giving your precious time to read this, these are some good habits a student must adopt for its success and better life.
Nowadays students are very worried about their studies. They are always in tension that how to score good marks, improve memory, to become 1st in the class, how to be a good student etc. These types of feelings, about which students are thinking all time which drags them to depression.There are habits or qualities that makes a student and a person having a good image In front of others & for success as well. Here are some good habits that a student should adopt.
1)Be The Best Not Superior-:
Many students want to be a good student & all want to be a successful person in their life. In classroom which student doesn't want to score 1st ? The students who want to score 1st they work hard, study hard, they contest among themselves and many other things. But when one student try many times to score good, but he/she fails then they go to depression. Do you know why he/she fails? They don't ask this question to themselves that's why they fail?The main reason is that they are trying to be the superior. Yes you read it right, they are trying to be the superior than others. If they try to be the best than themselves they could succeed. In other words for success you should try to be best than yourself. Try to study more, score more than your previous try. Means if you score 92% in this exam you just have to study hard to score more than the previous mark. The main theme is "Your competition is with you. You have to be better than yourself what you are today" Who engage itself in contest of being superior that person throughout the life remain in the race of being superior . But try to be the best then itself it will automatically become what he /she want.
2) Intrest on Anything
This happened many times with you that you started a work with full power and later you get irritated with it and stop the work. Many things like this for example if you want to read for 2 hrs after reading sometime you get irritated and stop studying. So this type of incidents happened in everybody's life. So why do this happen ? The answer is " Lack of Interest". If you have no interest on what you are doing you can't do that thing properly or completely. If you have no interest on studying and you study you will never remember what you have studied. So for success and for good results you should have a lot of interest. If you decided to study for 2 hrs you will definitely study for 2 hrs if you have that amount of interest. So how to improve this Interest? You have to first know about the interesting part of the topic you are doing. You will have automatically have an Interest to read the full topic. So before you do anything 1st create that amount of interest inside you. Study with interest and automatically you will remember what you have studied and you won't realize when 2 hrs or how many hours have gone by.
3) Knowledge - How To Aquire it
The most important thing in life is knowledge. Nothing is par with knowledge. In every stage of life you need it. So how to gain or Acquire it? The answer to this question is when we have
1) Calm mind
2) Assignment to knowledge
3) Relinquishment
4) Concentration
5) Focus
If you have these 5 things you can gain every knowledge which you want. This knowledge will always present in your body and also till last.The knowledge which is acquired by the way of ethics will remain with you in every moment in your lifetime and also it is useful in many stages of our life. But the knowledge which is gained on the way of unethical practice that knowledge will get far from you in the main time when you actually need it & it came in no use for you.This is not my opinion but it is the rule of nature.
Another question is that ,"What is the importance of knowledge." The answer is that the knowledge we gain in the above explained way will give "lib" to our soul and we will merge with the supreme lord after our death.
4) Improve Your Memory
Which student doesn't want to have a good memory? All students want a good memory power. But if a student can't score good marks he/she thinks that he/she has a bad memory power and engage him/her in many things which improves memory.
But in reality there is no bad or good memory all person in the world have the same memory. The main reason for this is the different retention power and the difference in a trained and untrained brain. If you want good memory you would have to improve your
1) training of brain
2) observation capacity
3) retention power
There will be also more chances of good memory if you have; if you have more & more information present in your brain.Thus, there is no worry for Memory you have to do the above mentioned things and after some time your memory will become good.
So how to improve these things? For training of your brain you should solve riddles, reasoning. Firstly you'll face some problems but with time you can solve them as your brain's solving capacity increases and also your memory power. For observation capacity you should observe things means if you want to know about a thing you you should observe it carefully and try to remember what do you know about it by this your observation power as well as your retention power increases. For retention power if you are preparing for exams you have to practice by reading and writing the answers of important questions 3-4 times. By this you can remember the answers clearly and your retention capacity get increased.
5) Time Sense/ Punctuality
One of the most important thing in our life is "time". So to achieve success a student must have time sense or in other words he/she has to be punctual.Time can make a bad student to a very good student. The only work of the student is to engage it's time for it's development means if a student engage it's time for his/her studies or other work related to its success no one can stop him/her for achieving their goals.
No one has power to handle the time we have only power to use it effectively. Time is always running you can't stop it but you have the power to go towards your success with it. Thus be punctual and engage your time towards your success.
6)Never Give Up
Most of the time we try something and can't do it, so what should we do? We give up, we thought," I can't do this." But this type of feeling make us more feeble than before. As we have an aim to become best, we will be best if we have a thought that is," I can do this." If you try and try you will success in that work. If this thought wasn't present, then scientists were never able to discover somethings which are present today. Therefore make your body, heart and mind strong and you will able to do whatever you want.
" Try Try But Don't Cry"
7) Be Ready
How many problems have you face till today ? Of course many problems you have faced in your life. Many times you thought why do they come? Why should not always the happiness come?
You ask yourself these type of questions. But do you know what is it's significance? The significance is your development. Yes this is it's the most important significance. When ever you face a problem you do hardship to get out of it. But think about the happiness after it. For example, suppose you are giving an exam in an examination hall .You did all in the right way but except one question,which you have read but can't remember. You try your best to find it's answer and you succeed in that. Think, what will your rate of happiness at that time ! After that you would not ignore such type of questions for the upcoming exams. Life is just like that. Time is always running and it will bring many difficulties in your life if you pass thaose you will be more experienced and there will be happiness around you.
So whenever you will face any difficulties, face the challenges bravely and you will able to overcome them. After that you will become more experienced and happy.
8) Forgiveness & Contrition
This is a very good habit for everyone which is also important. That is forgiveness and contrition . Let's assume someone did a loss to you, what will you do? If you punish that person his mind will have a negative thought towards you. Then he /she will continuously do loss to you. And if you forgive that person then the person's mind will begin to have a positive attitude towards you and he will never do that again. So forgiveness is a very good habit that make your enemies to your friends. Whenever you do some wrong, you often say to God to forgive you & god also do that. God forgive every person because of to give that person a message not to do that mistake again.Contrition means the feeling of sorry for the mistake you did. If you have deep contrition towards the mistake you did, then the person of whom you did the loss will automatically forgive you and have a positive attitude towards you as well.
9) Patience & Acceptance
Do you know who was Sir Albert Einstein? Of course you know him, but do you know that the importance of patience and acceptance linked with him? Today you will know that . When Einstein was learning, once his school's principal told that he would never success in his life or in any background . So if anyone say you like this, can you tolerate? But sir Albert Einstein accepted these all. The negative thought of the society, he also accepted them. But he has the patience and with this patience he continued his journey and at last he became a great scientist. You also many times listen a bad thought about you from anyone, so don't react, what they have said just accept it. What could possibly wrong happen to you, accept, but sometimes we have to rise our voice. Don't react about their thoughts, continue your journey towards your aim with patience. They will automatically get to know that what they had said about you was wrong and you are able to do that. Thus accept & with patience go towards your success/aim.
10 ) Learn from Environment
There are many good things around your environment, from which you can learn many things. The things such as discipline, sustenance, punctuality, forgiveness, sacrifices etc. So how do you get to know? See around you , there are a lot of things isn't it? I am giving some examples from where you can learn.
1.Ants -:: You most of the time saw Ants walking or going for their food . But did you find any good habit? Of course it's a common question, we find discipline, hard work and also a lot of team work.They go with discipline, do hard work for collecting food and also do team work.
2. Tree -:There are a lot of things , you can learn from tree. Such as sustenance, sacrificeness, relinquishment etc. Tree give everything to us such as oxygen , food and many other things but it doesn't beg any other thing in exchange of these things. So this a great characteristic of tree that is' selfless'. It selflessly gives everything to other organism's life.
So you should adopt the above habits & keep hardworking, you will get the success.
God is always with you.
BY TYLER
FROM VERRYONEL
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